🧠Sacrifice for everything, try everything, but finally, what is gained in return is only indifference and unworthiness. You begin to doubt yourself, become depressed and think yourself worthless. Stop blaming yourself! In fact, you are not worthless, but because you “put yourself in the wrong place and wrong people.” Why does the same thing have different values? In the psychology of perception, people do not evaluate something according to “reality,” but evaluate according to their “context and needs.” Imagine that if you take a bottle of pure water to sell near the place where the sale water overflows, they may value it very little or not at all. But if the same bottle of water is sold to a person who is wandering in the middle of the desert, a bottle of water will be worth life. Sacrifice the right place = Diamonds When you are in a place where they need your skills and values, one word or one small action of yours is also of great value. Misplaced sacrifice = piece of land When you are with people who do not understand your worth, even if you give up until all you can be seen only as a “duty” or a “useless thing.” 3 signs that you are “misplaced” if you are in these situations, it is time to become aware:                                                                                                              1. You are the only giver A good relationship is mutual giving and receiving. If in work or love, only one of you worries, tries and sacrifices, while the other side only waits to receive and criticize, then you are at a loss.                2. They only see you when they have business In time of fun, they never remember you. But when there is a problem, you need money, you need strength or you need entertainment, they immediately run to you. This is not to value you as an “important person,” only to see you as their “problem-solving tool.”                                                                                                                 3. Your potential is overwhelmed Some workplaces or some people do not want to see you grow the most. No matter how hard you work, how good you produce the results, they do not know or take the works as their own. Change yourself from “piece of land” to “piece of diamond” Life is short, don’t spend precious time forcing people to be incompatible, come to love or value us. – Learn the word “no,” remember that people who are too good are easy to be exploited. Rejection to unreasonable things is not malice, but protection of self-worth. People who truly love you will respect your decision. – Invest in yourself, rather than running after others, take the time that works hard to please them, and develop your ability, skills and self-knowledge. When you are strong, turn your back, you will find many good opportunities and good people waiting to welcome you. Change the atmosphere, if you know that the land in the place is dry, cultivated, not alive, you must dare to withdraw to find fertile land. Dare to walk away from the work place that does not grow and toxic people. Remember that the diamond, even if it falls into the mud, it is still a diamond, but if it is in the mud forever, no one can see its shine unless it is washed and displayed in the right place. You are already valuable in the body. Now it is time for you to choose the place to stand and the person to be nearby cleverly. Do not be a piece of land to tread on if you can be a precious diamond! 💭 Thank you everyone for always supporting Money Buddy! Please help Like, Follow and Share publicly to share financial knowledge to all Cambodians! 💚